It is one of the major problem of many of us that after viewing other's Achievement or any Good Quality we start feeling jealousy for him;this is one of the natural phenomenon but not common for few ones. one of the reason that one should not feel jealous about others depends upon his/her maturity,mentality level & what the person thinks about the other person,these all things are inter connected to each other & results in the perception of an individul for others.when the Mind is clear & thoughts are completely positive there is no space for such feeling. It only arises when we start comparing our-self with others, So is it wrong to compare ourself with others? how will we came to know our efficiency & Quality? No, but we forget to consider the potential & capabilities of others we forget his especiallity,we compare only the result not the Hard-work behind it.So what if anybody didn't even did that bit Hard-work also?
Here comes the other reason which many of us might not believe, what is that? its the hardwork which he/she has done. we already believe that the other person is lucky than us & is not that the hard work that helps him every time while i always get undesired results.
The work is done in the past either in this life or in the previous life, if we consider 7 times births of a human-being, According to Hindu culture than nobody knows Authentically that which birth he/she is living? so it can be the case that it might be His/hers 2nd 3rd or any-other chance in this world & you Might just be a Newbie in this world,the luck that he/she Aquired might be of his/her previous live which you or he/she presently never know.So its waste to compare yourself to a 'well experienced', 'well equiped with luck' soul.
The other thinking one should have is that he should live & keep positive thinking towards others & should find happiness in other's happiness by realising the the joy of getting his/her achievement which you might not have achieved due to some reason.
To place a thinking in mind that everyone have some Qualities one or the other & its never necessary that two different persons have all the same Qualities,What one should focus more is his own Qualities,limitations,potentials,efficiency,caliber,his/her previous attempts,records & results which help in judging oneself from others which is a key point, one know better about himself than anybody else; so its necessary to understand that "what he can do nobody else can do and what else do he might not be able to or might not be doing".
Here comes the other reason which many of us might not believe, what is that? its the hardwork which he/she has done. we already believe that the other person is lucky than us & is not that the hard work that helps him every time while i always get undesired results.
The work is done in the past either in this life or in the previous life, if we consider 7 times births of a human-being, According to Hindu culture than nobody knows Authentically that which birth he/she is living? so it can be the case that it might be His/hers 2nd 3rd or any-other chance in this world & you Might just be a Newbie in this world,the luck that he/she Aquired might be of his/her previous live which you or he/she presently never know.So its waste to compare yourself to a 'well experienced', 'well equiped with luck' soul.
The other thinking one should have is that he should live & keep positive thinking towards others & should find happiness in other's happiness by realising the the joy of getting his/her achievement which you might not have achieved due to some reason.
To place a thinking in mind that everyone have some Qualities one or the other & its never necessary that two different persons have all the same Qualities,What one should focus more is his own Qualities,limitations,potentials,efficiency,caliber,his/her previous attempts,records & results which help in judging oneself from others which is a key point, one know better about himself than anybody else; so its necessary to understand that "what he can do nobody else can do and what else do he might not be able to or might not be doing".
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